Wow…
On a daily basis, anyone, at anytime, should simply stop and listen to the world around us…just for a minute or two.
Wow…
24 hour news channels, non-stop internet analysis of anything and everything, pertinent to anyone’s life or not. Blackberry’s and iPhones streaming realtime ‘news’ (really? Is Ricky Martin being gay really ‘news’ – or anyone’s business for that matter?) all the time, whenever you turn a corner downtown, flip on the radio (aka Clear Channel Corporate Streaming Mechanism) or walk through a store.
It’s overwhelming. No wonder people are constantly strung out, stressed to the max, and completely preoccupied with what is not real. I get sad and distressed when I start noticing these things, not the ‘issues’ or ‘subjects’ themselves, but the fact that they are news – they are out there – they are Important – that I even know about them…all the while, the hard stuff, the important stuff, the Real Stuff, is being ignored or not understood, or not trusted, and the effort is not being made to understand them. “It’s so overwhelming – there is just so much, so I shut it off” Yeah…right.
So many issues, so much information, and so much opportunity exists for real discussion and true dialogue. But that’s not happening. The Tea Party Express is happening, and Sandra Bullock and Tiger Woods are happening, and Conan O’Brien. People are having a hard time even thinking about health care (not reform, but being healthy to start with), or climate change (I call it ‘personal responsibility’) or real happiness (like, self improvement in whatever form that may be). Loving your spouse or enjoying your kids or a grandparent. Seeing a beautiful place and slowing down long enough to soak it in. Having a discussion in quiet tones, in a calm voice, in a soft setting, with no timelines and no pressure or judgment.
My house has a fireplace in the living room. It’s one of those grand ‘sitting spaces’ that are more or less gone from today’s houses because it does not have a TV in it. I wonder what kind of discussions were had, or conversations started, or thoughts provoked in that room because there was no distractions and no deadline. There was wine, a couple of people, some chairs, and a gentle fire. That sounds nice right about now.








